Wednesday, September 09, 2009

I am over the moon:


I am minding my own business visiting Jared and Megan. I get a friend request on facebook, from a friend of a friend.. you know the deal. Because I am nice I add them and say the standard, "hello, how have you been.." It turns into this crazy back and forth where he is OVERLY enthusiastic (everything in CAPS) and calls me "gorgeous, my dove, and babe/boo." I keep thinking to myself... no one ever has or will call me this. I find it irritating partially because I REALLY DONT KNOW YOU! I ignore it and continue to make the attempt to see whats up with him, but every post he makes, he calls me these names. Thankfully he isnt writing on my wall.. it would so be deleted. He starts doing facebook chat and once again with the "babe" and "boo." I request that he refrain from calling me as such, and move on to they "hey, hows it goin/hows life" kind of nonsense. It doesnt need to be dwelled on. He answers said questions, says "you're a feminist, aren't you." and gets offline. Ummm? WHAT? Ok... Is that supposed to be an insult? I have never thought I was, but.. um.. ok? I try to go to his wall- he has deleted me as a friend... SAY WHAT??? YOU ADDED ME?! So I send a message: "I'm actually not a feminist Tanner. I am a female that you have had about one conversation with in my life time.. I am not necessarily comfortable being called babe or boo. That is just me. But apparently I came off as feminist, which I find rather humorous.. and you opted to delete me as a friend for that fact. Whatever floats your boat." his response: "I cant help it your mad at men BABE! Maybe thats why u aint married =) TAH TAH" Ummm? I'm mad at men? Well that explains so MUCH! I scare them off with my feminist ways. I attempt to reply.. Nope. Can't. He has deleted all trace of himself from my view. I know he hasnt deleted his facebook, just blocked all access of himself to me.. umm. Ok. Who knew I made such an impact.

4 comments:

Whitney said...

Oh my goodness. He doesn't even deserve a reply to his last snub. Good grief. Be happy all trace of him is gone. What a loser. Amanda, I think you are amazing and a great person. I don't think anything you did warranted his behavoir or mud slinging. I don't think you were being a feminist, (not that feminism is necessarily bad) but that he is just wholely and completely a jerk. I loved your reply. (your old pal Whitney from SV- Whitney Herrod from 2nd ward).

Bekki said...

What an immature ass.

Kaje said...

I dunno what everyone is talking about! He sounds like a winner!

-Kj

Sara said...

WoW! What a loser! (The guy...definitely not you!)